Okay, I may not have an actual PhD in cuddling, but after a 23-year marriage and half a dozen long-term relationships, I've always been complimented for being so huggable. Does a person really need some sort of a degree to cuddle? Everyone who's ever been in a relationship knows that amazing feeling that you get from a comforting hug. Have you been alone for the holidays? Do you miss your long distance family members? Maybe you've had a bad day and are feeling a little sad and just need a nice warm hug. Or, you've had a great day and you're on top of the world with no one to celebrate it with and you need a nice congratulatory hug . I think there are enough single people in particular, not to mention married, (so very sad ) that are deprived of physical touch, and or a pleasant conversation. There is a huge void in our lives. It seems to me that tactile interaction is a much-needed commodity and in short supply. You could pay for this service, ( and I'd be happy to take your money. Lol.) and it may be a better experience for you, but to me, it wouldn't seem as genuine as it would if a person just needed a therapeutic hug from time to time. We should both be enjoying one another's company. I truly enjoy making people feel relaxed, secure and comfortable. (And who doesn't need an escape from reality from time to time just to relax in a peaceful environment?) Maybe just sitting side by side in a park with the Sun warming our skin, and not needing to talk, but just having someone next to you and having that feeling of comfort and security. Your comfort, safety, and privacy are always my top priorities. There would need to be a basic level of physical attraction, but more importantly it's creating a personal connection, whether it's one time or on going. I'm a 64 yo fit white male looking for mature women that think this sounds like a healthy form of therapy. If hugs seem to intimate but you still need deep relaxation, I can dust off my massage table. BTW, the only men that I hug are my adult sons. Sorry guys.
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From a former happy hugger:
41 yo w/f here. I feel a little weird replying to this. Your post caught my attention. Long story short I moved to Sacramento in October. I’m from Nashville. I have no family here. I won’t be going home for Christmas so this is really rough on me right now. I miss my family, especially my dad. I don’t know If you’re interested, please let me know. Thank you
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